
I want to be clear to start off: I never knew Monica Barlow. I didn’t know who she was, what she did, or anything regarding the circumstances of her story. She passed away today at the young age of 36. From the mourning and outpouring of grief from writers, media members, and representatives of every organization across Major League Baseball, it’s clear that this was a woman that influenced, uplifted, and inspired many souls. I count myself as one of those, even though I never knew her; the total unification of the beat writer circuit in sharing stories, jokes, and memories surrounding the Orioles’ Director of PR inspires me even further to be a part of this world.
It started with a vague, ominous tweet from Orioles’ starter Bud Norris this morning. He didn’t want to elaborate on its meaning, nor should he have at that point.
Then the outpouring of support came from the MLB community, and Monica’s story became revealed to me in small bits and pieces.
The pall around the Orioles permeates their day following the death of Monica Barlow
— Peter Gammons (@pgammo) February 28, 2014
Devastated to learn Orioles PR director Monica Barlow lost her battle with cancer. Thinking of all my friends on beat and in organization.
— Mark Zuckerman (@MarkZuckerman) February 28, 2014
#Orioles lost a brave woman today. PR head Monica Barlow, 36, passed away due to Stage IV lung cancer. She was the strongest person I've met
— Britt Ghiroli (@Britt_Ghiroli) February 28, 2014
#Orioles family devastated today with news of Monica Barlow's passing after long and courageous battle with stage IV lung cancer
— Roch Kubatko (@masnRoch) February 28, 2014
So sad MT @Britt_Ghiroli: #Orioles PR head Monica Barlow, 36, passed away due to Stage IV lung cancer. She was the strongest person I've met
— Alden González (@Alden_Gonzalez) February 28, 2014
The Orioles released their official statement, which you can find on their homepage and on their Twitter page. In a pre-game news conference with Buck Showalter, Buck revealed one of the more heartwrenching, touching stories involving Mrs. Barlow.
Buck: "I tried to text (Monica) every night before I went to bed. Today was the first time I didn't get a returned one." We were done here
— Roch Kubatko (@masnRoch) February 28, 2014
Monica Barlow was 36, a non-smoker, and died of Stage IV Lung Cancer. Like I said, I never knew her, but she was clearly an admirable and courageous woman about whom enough good things cannot be said. People are trying, though, and they probably will be throughout the day. I felt compelled to write this as a thank you note to Monica, for inspiring everyone you interacted with, and by extension, those like me who interact with them.
We'd ask "Why you?" And Monica would say "Why not?" All you need to know. God bless you, Mon. We love and miss you
— Roch Kubatko (@masnRoch) February 28, 2014
You can also read Roch Kubatko’s tribute to his dear friend here.
On behalf of the FanSided.com staff, our heartfelt condolences go out to all of those who knew and were touched by Monica Barlow.